PARENTS ARE THE FIRST HELPER IN YOUR WORLD

Parents are helpers

     Seriously! Can you imagine a world where babies just appear or are sent down from a baby factory (like the movie “Boss Baby”). I mean, where couples or opposite sex do not come together to make babies. Instead, you just see babies on the street, road, entrance door or anywhere, and pick the ones you like or choose to train up. It sounds ridiculous, I guess! But let’s continue the journey.

So, how did you feel or respond when you came to the awareness that you were born to the present family you belong to now? Some people will say; they didn’t choose the family, they just found themselves there, neither did they choose the time to come (whether as the first or last born). I think it’s true, I mean, if a lot of us had the opportunity to choose our family; some couples will have so many children while others will have less or none (funny!). Yes! Because a lot of babies or children will want couples who can give them all their needs (beyond physical needs) and the best of life. So, it not about how beautiful, loving, caring or romantic your family is, that is been discussed (actually, a lot of us will still choose the same family over and over again in this case). 

Guess what? I perceive that there are so many questions or things that require explanations and answers in our physical world. Like, why some children are fortunate to be born in wealthy families while others are born into abject poverty and struggling ones? The Creator (God) knows you will be born to that family or situation you are right now; this is why there are parents in our world and the world at large.

Parents are definitely the first helper sent to children (you) in this world by the creator (God). Why do I think so? With all the biological explanations, it is certain that your parents did not create or form you. They actually gave birth or conceived you by coming together (biological make up). How your spirit entered the body they were carrying, is still unknown to them.

At birth, the “mind of a child” is empty and plain (“Tabular Rasa” meaning “Clean slate”) - nothing is known. Your parents are the ones that train, care, teach, build, guide, mentor, and inspire you. One does not know anything at all because every knowledge or idea is learnt in this world. So, if you are given good or bad information and ideas, it mostly likely will have effect on you. Before you know it, you begin to emulate their lifestyle and everything about them.

I may not be able to give accurate percentage of parents that helped the children live good and worthy life, even though some have done otherwise. The good parents or successful ones are more than the opposite, in the world. This article seem to be concern about parents that have become “helpers” or “heroes” and not otherwise, because they are the ones making the society and our world a better place to live in. Sincerely, I definitely know that there are people who are victims of bad parenthood or never had someone to care for them due to one reason or another.

“Parents are the first helper God (Creator) sent to you. Even though some have proven otherwise, we ought to still celebrate and honor them”

Deep thought, you might never be able or probably wouldn’t be on earth, if your parents never came together to have you. Whether you would have been born by another parent (couple) or in the next life, we all don’t know. So what we should think about is the opportunity they offered to come into the world through them and so, they ought to be honored and celebrated for it. 

Above all, whether you are a parent already or will soon become one; think about celebrating those that sacrificed a lot for you (you are definitely a child to someone). They may not have possessed all the money you needed or wanted, but they stood as your first HELPER: your coach, mentor, guardian, teacher … in this world. Because without them, think about where you would become, how you would have lived, how a lot of things would have been difficult. So, celebrate and honor them in your own way and grand style for the wonderful opportunity.

Remember the bastards, vagabonds and orphans all around the world, a lot of them are craving for a helper (parent). So, stretch out helping hands to them because they never had the opportunity you and most of us had or the one you are taking for granted. And if there are any problem with your parenthood, make changes. 

Think about this!

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Fayombo Gabriel 

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